This Is How Shailene Woodley Gets Over a Breakup

Share
Tweet
Pin It
Share
Tweet
Pin It
Dealing with a tough break-up? Shailene Woodley has some advice for you.

Rather than quickly moving on to the next beau or keeping yourself busy, the Divergent star recommends falling in love with yourself.

"I think when you feel like you've gotten your heart broken, it's probably because you broke it yourself," she told the Huffington Post. "That's counterintuitive, but my experience has been when I've been heartbroken, I say take a break. Do you. Taste the world as an individual rather than someone who's in partnership. Learn to love yourself. Learn what makes you laugh and learn what makes you happy."

"I remember when I was 17, I had broken up with someone who was my first love," she continued. "After we broke up, I decided to take a year to know me. I didn't want to date anyone else. I didn't want to look at anyone else. What I found was I had more fun with myself than I ever had with another person. My entire life, I felt like I had to depend on others for entertainment and depend on external experience in order to laugh and find things really funny. I became my own best friend. That was the most beautiful realization I had during that whole period."

What do you think about Shailene's break-up advice? Would you follow it or do you deal with heartbreak in a different way that you think is better? Tell us in the comments!

Want More? Like us on Facebook
Gallery | Shailene Woodley's Rise to Fame

MORE CELEB SCOOPS

Show Comments
Join Our Newsletter
Stay fetch. Sign up for The Cray, our daily roundup of all things buzzworthy. From Kylie Jenner's trendsetting style (btw, puberty goals AF) to life-changing tech news (tweeting an emoji to order a pizza #YES), The Cray is all you need to impress the squad.
Privacy Terms