Ansel explained their relationship off screen is more similar to their brother sister dynamic in Divergent while discussing whether guys can be just friends with girls. "If a woman is really pretty, it's kind of hard. I'm not going to lie," he first says. "Actually, that's not true. Me and Shailene have a really platonic relationship. I've never once wanted her sexually, which is nice. But for me, if a person is someone I'm attracted to, and she's my best friend, hopefully we're dating."
And if you do happen to be dating Ansel, like his current girlfriend Violetta Komyshan, you're in luck, because he enjoys giving lavish gifts and planning romantic dates. "I like to buy girls shoes and jewelry," he shares. "I buy stupidly expensive shoes. I got Louboutins for my mom and my girlfriend before."
"I like romantic dates," Ansel admits. "Going on a long walk in Central Park and then taking the subway downtown and going out to eat and ordering oysters. It's fun. It's like you're living in a movie." Swoon!
See Ansel and Shai together again on screen as siblings in Insurgent, which hits theaters March 20 and tune in Tuesday at 4 pm ET/1 pm PT when we're live with Shailene and Theo James for AOL Build.