Dear Bae, Loving Me Won't Be Easy
I am writing this letter to give you a little insight on being in a relationship with me. I will tell you right now that it won't be easy. If you're not willing to go through some bumps along the road, then I'm sorry to say that you'll have to move along and find someone else. I want to be with someone who will go through the ups but more importantly the downs.
I truly believe that honesty is the best policy, especially in relationships. Good or bad, I want you to be honest. If you can't be honest with me, how will I be able to trust you? When there's no trust, there's no relationship. I know it can be difficult to tell the truth about something that's hurtful, but we're in this together and no matter what it is we will find a way to get through it together. I'd be even more hurt and upset, if I were to find out through someone else.
I'm easy to please. I don't want your money or material things. I want to spend time with you, making memories that we can recall when we're older. A good morning text will bring a smile to my face when I wake up. Small thoughtful things like that I find really sweet and will always put a smile on my face.
There will be times that I don't want to be bothered, and I ask that you respect that. It doesn't mean that I'm mad at you, just that I need some time to myself and reflect. We will both want to go out with our own friends, and it's okay to have fun with others, too. Alone time or time with friends is very important so that we can appreciate the time that we spend together.
I love adventure and trying new things. Hopefully you can keep up with all my crazy ideas. I'm always up to something new and want you to support me through the journey and I will do the same for you.
I will watch sports with you and cheer for your favorite team. But know that I might not know all the rules and will be asking for explanations from time to time.
Being in a relationship with me will be an adventure, but I promise that if you take the time and stick around it will be worth it.